Learn to be loved and appreciated is one of the essential parameters of happiness.Indeed, no friendship, no love or tenderness, life would no longer worth living. You certainly know one of those people that everybody loves. And if, instead of thinking it is a coincidence or a genetic trait, if you act in order to evolve this work? Here are some tips to help you?
1 - Know devote time to others. If you're always in a hurry, so you never have time to share, you can not even get in touch. You will remain transparent or non-existent, simply! The time devoted to others is an investment friendly!
2 - Make compliments. Beware, it is by no means flattering! Just when you think something positive for someone, tell him. That simple? Not so sure, we all tend to keep it for us. While it feels so good.
3 - Be positive with yourself: from the moment you think you have a certain value, where you enjoy yourself, you pass this idea around you. The exact opposite of "I suck, stay away!
4 - Cultivate a sense of humor: this is not necessarily spontaneous. The key is not to have the word that fly, but being able to laugh at oneself and perspective. When you know laugh at yourself, you are immediately more human!
5 - Learn to ask, it is often easier to give than to ask. Yet going to get help, you allow the other to be generous. And that's a beautiful gift : thanks to you, there is a better opinion of him! Nothing could be more positive!
6 - Enjoy listening : one who is interested in that. The really listen with kindness, empathy, interest. This seems obvious, but few people are truly capable of. And those who do are always loved.
7 - Never judge: judge, it is very easy, but very simplistic. This puts a label that imprisons. And as you know only a small part of the other, you're always wrong! Give him the freedom to be as everything else you can imagine is extremely valuable because rare!
And continue the momentum by adding your two cents. Indeed, everyone can find his personal way of being loved: share your passions, propose projects, be confident and positive towards others, dare to show your limits and your weaknesses, change your emotional relationships a priority, smile, look the life with relish, make gifts personal, cultivate your own happiness for that radiates around you? Finally, there are a thousand ways to make love!
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